
When it comes time to sit down and write that wedding toast you have been putting off for weeks, probably even months, it can seem daunting. Its a big moment and all eyes will be on you. Below are a couple tips from the book: Your Special Wedding Toast by Sharon Naylor.
1. Know yourself- Remember to be yourself, relax, and deliver your style of toast, your way. You can’t stand up and deliver any speech that isn’t your own personal style.
2. Introduce Yourself- Make sure to say your name and how you know the bride and/or groom. Before you launch into your speech it is important to make sure the guest know who you are.
3. Open Strongly- You’ve got everyone’s full attention and if you don’t give them something intriguing and engaging in the first fifteen to twenty seconds, you’re a goner. So open with a quote, a funny anecdote, or a well-chosen joke about the bride and groom.
4. Make eye Contact- You want to connect with your audience and have them connect with you as well as what you’re saying. Make sure to make eye contact with the bride and groom along with the audience.
5. Watch your hands- Your hands give away your jitters level, so be mindful of not touching your hair too much, twisting your ring, taking your hands in and out of your pockets - all of these are unconscious moves.
6. Finish Strong- Tie back into your opening statement if you can to finish your speech off as if in a perfect circle. Complete the metaphors and bring the guests back to your opening quote.
7. Smile- Let your great personality show. The bride and groom chose you for this role and wanted you to speak to their guests because they knew you’d be great. So let your true self shine through- even if you mess up.
Hopefully these tips are useful and will provide a good foundation for your wedding toast. For more wedding toast ideas and other wedding resources check out New and Blue online.