Addressing envelopes for a party or wedding can be tricky with so many rules to follow. But let’s highlight one very important rule. Ladies first. Yes, whether we are talking about manners or envelopes, a woman should always be first.  Right? There is a misconception that men should be listed first out of respect. When we do this however, we are separating a man from his last name. This is the first rule- never separate a man from his last name. By following this rule, addressing envelopes should be a little bit easier. Here are some common scenarios:

Michael and Bethany Johnson

Correction: Bethany and Michael Johnson

Michael, Bethany, Johnny and Katie Johnson

Correction: Bethany, Johnny, Katie and Michael Johnson

Mr. and Mrs. Michael and Bethany Johnson

Correction: Mr and Mrs. Michael Johnson

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